People Watching on Facebook…..Here is What I Have Found Part #2

Welcome to Part #2 of this Blog topic. I have been doing some research lately and part of that research is going back on people’s Facebook feed’s to see if they ever talked about New Years Resolutions, or talked about moving away and doing great things, or maybe its them starting a new business and this time they mean it when they say they will do this and make a future for themselves.

What I have discovered is a bunch of lies, I see people talk a lot about what they want to do, but not one of these people actually is doing anything they said they were going to.

The problem with Facebook is that you can’t hide anything once you posted it, now unless you delete it then we have no way of seeing these posts but most people operate on just emotions, once bad shit starts to happen to people that is when you start to see people post things like this……

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I’m sick but once I am better I still won’t change anything.

1). You Have a Health Scare.…so you post about eating right, exercising and being fit but because your health scare did not kill you, you go right back to your old habits and your old ways. You only meant what you said because you felt horrible, but once you got better all those ideas of being healthy went away.

You Lose a Job……this is a classic one, once people lose their income source they freak out because they haven’t prepared for anything in life financially so all they know how to do is post on Facebook and look for sympathy. These people will say things like “I’m tired of being treated unfair”……or “I’m worth more than what I get paid”……then after a couple of weeks, they usually go to a temp agency or a job fair to go and find another low paying, unfair job just like the last one they just lost.

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2). Relationship Breakups…another classic one, this is a little different from the Single Ladies one from the first blog on this topic because once a person has a relationship end, well they post about it, most times you see posts that say “I’m not meant to be with anyone”…or you see “Why Me” posts…..that would be like me saying “I will never sell a property ever again because one deal didn’t work out.  Words of advice…..stop posting that crap on Facebook, it lets all of us know you are insecure, you are needy, and you have no self worth and as a guy writing this post I can tell you that what I admire in females the most is strength, not beauty, but how well they carry themselves as ladies. Are you confident? can you do what you say you will do? do you have a backbone? I know that confidence is something I look for in all people and chances are if you lack self worth…..then relationships will be impossible for you!

images (2)3). When You Go Broke Every Month….At the end of the month or during the holidays I have noticed that people love to let the Facebook world know that they are indeed POOR! they pay their bills and whatever is left over isn’t enough to cover the rest so here is what you will see from these people. The first thing they do is make fun of their situation, they say things like “I’m so broke I can’t afford to pay attention”, this lets everyone know that you are broke and that you are not doing anything about it. The second thing they will do is offer a lame ass excuse as to why they are broke and why they will forever stay broke, they will say things like “I don’t want to be rich”…..but yet they bitch about money and post meme’s on Facebook that say “Pass this on and money will come your way” or they post Lotto winners stories and then say “Must be nice” so I guess making fun of yourself Vs coming up with solutions is a much better approach to fixing your current financial status….good job on that!

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What Are You Doing About It?

The worst part and I guess the Third thing these people will do is they will make broken promises, now I could be a total dick and copy and paste all these actual Facebook posts about these subjects from people’s profiles but I won’t just because I have enough trolls in my life already. The broken promise is this, you will see a broke person panic, then they will announce that they are going to get their act together, they will be more serious about their money and they will work hard to SAVE money and then what?……what is your plan once you have this giant pile of money you plan to create?

The reason this Savings approach is a lie is because you don’t know how to create more money outside of what you work for so once you have savings in the bank you have to know how to make it grow, and if you can’t do that now with the money you make, then you are lying to yourself because the reason you are poor is not because you don’t make enough…..its because you don’t know how money works and because of that you pay the ultimate price in life……YOU STAY POOR! Savings will not help you at all because you will end up spending it on bills and other things so that you don’t fall more into debt or fall behind again in anyway, this is a dead end plan, no one saves their way to success anymore because the rules of money have changed and if you don’t know what I mean by that then you should worry because most of the world knows about these changes and are taking action Today to stay ahead of the game.

To this day 10/10/2015 I still see people posting things on Facebook and still they do nothing to fix their problems, but they will post all about those problems and they post not to get help, but to get sympathy from friends and family. I hate to say this but I have offered to help some of these people and all I ever get is backlash from these people, my favorite line that people use against me is this…..“Not everyone wants to own a business Mike”……..or here’s another good one “I’m not a sales person, I hate sales people” but yet every single time you go on a job interview you are hoping to sell the employer on the idea that you would be a great hire for the company, you will dress nice, and be on your best behavior, you will look and sound the part all right…..because you want something in return……MONEY! just because you are not in sales for a living doesn’t mean you don’t try to be good at it when you need it the most in life and don’t you just wish that you had way more savvy skills on those job interviews? you would be less nervous, you would be more prepared, and you would expect to get the job Vs you stressing about it and just hoping they call you back and the only reason you feel like that after an interview is because you lack the ability to sell yourself as an asset to someone. Most of the time you can bullshit through a job interview and get it, but what type of jobs are you actually interviewing for? are they skilled jobs that actually matter, or are you just applying for a job to fill a position with a company because they will hire anyone who will show up and you need a paycheck right now?

You can read Part #1 of this blog here: https://meetthementor.wordpress.com/2015/10/10/people-watching-on-facebook-here-is-what-i-have-found/

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People Watching on Facebook….Here is What I Have Found.

One of the things I love most about Facebook is that you can go back several years on someone’s profile and see how things have changed for them over the years because they at one time said that they were going to have changes coming and that we should expect to see them soon.

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Stop Making Excuses!

Tonight I was reminded of the fact that so many people are caught up with just bullshit in life that is literally consumes them on a daily basis. I saw some posts from a few years ago on some people’s profiles and it said that these people were going to move away soon, or go to a new and better paying job, need a change of pace, find their own path in life, make progress happen, and find their true passions…….and yet that was 6 years ago on most of these and none of these people have done a damn thing that they said they would and why is that?

Why do people post that they will be taking over the world soon…..but then do nothing for the next several years? I think its a sickness most people have, they tell the Facebook world that they will be doing something great down the road and then you see people encourage them and say “You can do this” or “We believe in you”

Watching people starve for attention is really hard to watch, you can tell who these people are because they have a pattern they follow every few weeks and you will see posts or meme’s that represent their state of mind and how they feel about where they are at in life. When I was in mentor training I learned how to watch people, I watch their behavior and their patterns and part of that includes what they say and how they operate as a human being in their daily life so here are the examples I have seen recently and now maybe you too can watch this shit show with me because people do this all the time without knowing they are doing it and because they act like this, they will never see any progress in the real world.

162ec1a5896b090aee17123894c86a4f1). Overweight People and out of Shape People – These people will post Meme’s saying that heavy people are better lovers or friends, or are just as sexy as anyone else in this world, this basically justifies or makes an excuse for them that makes it ok to be lazy, not stick to a work out plan ever, eat like shit, and then laugh about it or joke about it enough to post a Facebook entry about it and then ignore the fact that they are still overweight or out of shape….but they want the change, they want to lose weight and feel better, but they can never commit to the process EVER so that is why they post excuse meme’s in their defense….why not post a meme that says “Going to the Gym no matter what today”.….but you’ll never see that from these type of people they only know how to use excuses and they have several but what happens if that person does lose weight?….do they then say that they didn’t mean what their post said or what their meme said? usually to save face they will say something like “All people are sexy in their own way” when in fact they singled out overweight people as the ones who are better so which one is it? are we all sexy or is sexy based only on what you are in life at the time you say those things?

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I’m Single because I am insecure.

2). Single Ladies – will post things about how a good man is hard to find or all the good ones are taken, for the guys who are single you will see meme’s posted about women cheating, or your wallet being thin because women spend all your money, but in the end if you attack and label both men or women, then its no wonder you are still single and bitter and have trust issues.

3). The Broke Person in Denial – these people talk the most about money issues and they use humor or other sneaky ways to get their message out to the masses, having poor money habits shows in the language people use on a daily basis and they go something like this…..see if you can spot anything like this on your friends Facebook feeds because phrases like this are what people say when they are not being productive in life and have no other interests to work on other than wasted activities……“I can’t wait for the weekend”…..“Is it Friday yet?…..“I hate having overtime”.…..“I hope we get a Christmas bonus this year at least”….“Too broke to care”.….“I’m bored”……..“Nothing to do”………“Someone come entertain me I’m bored”……phrases like this show you that these people have nothing to look forward to except time off from work, and time away from being accountable to their future, they would rather spend what little money and time that they have just to have some fun because hey why not….life is short right?…that is what most of them will say and yes….that answer is a hidden excuse for them so look for it because they love to avoid accountability.

f2e9f3a725483eaf953306828bb518ac4). The People Who Threaten to Leave Facebook – I love these people, no single group of insecure people stands out more on Facebook than grown ass adults who threaten to take themselves off Facebook in protest of others having an opinion on something you may have posted. This one takes the cake because getting upset on a platform where you can not only delete the messages on your post, but you can unfriend and block people as well which to me is so much easier to do and eliminate the problem people on your feed Vs an adult shouting to the world that they need special attention from everyone because someone out there in the world upset them and hurt their feelings or at least challenged them in debate. This topic alone I see a ton of lately especially with Religion, Isis, Wars Overseas, Global Economy, and a Presidential Race going on there is no lack of topics to fight over on Facebook and many times these are the topics that seem to piss people off the most and get them to take that plunge and throw the ultimate temper tantrum which is to threaten the whole Facebook world with your lack of Existence from this point on.

images (2)These are just some of the examples I have been watching lately, as a mentor to people I observe how people act in life and I do mean “ACT”. In today’s world people act like they are doing ok when in fact they are screaming their heads off on the inside because they know that what they are doing in life isn’t good enough to give them real world results that they wish for in their posts. Usually around the holidays you start to see New Years Resolutions start to come out, people wanting to do better next year than they did the past one, they want to be happier, healthier, make more money, and many other things but in the end all of these people who act and think and talk this way will never see success on their dreams in life simply because they are in denial about where they are at in life, and they are in denial in the sense that they believe that life is as good as its ever going to be for them so why bother trying to reach for the stars? why bother growing at all as a person? keep your ceiling low, do the bare minimum and then what?……hope for the best?

I hope this blog sheds some light on this subject, being around people who are all talk and no follow through are toxic people to be around because they only know how to do so much in life and once they hit their ceiling, they simply stop advancing in life and then they begin to settle for what they have Vs trying to continue to excel for themselves and for their family, they check out and just coast until they die most times and that to me is no way to live but yet that is how most people operate in today’s world and now after reading this, maybe you too can spot some of them, maybe you have friends who act like this if so are you going to call them out? or will you keep feeding them sympathy so that they can continue on in life living like this because this is how they let you know who they are and with that I say…Happy People Watching to you all!danger_people_watcher_funny_t_shirt_hat_mug_bag_mouse_pad-re56342b30266478782b90c831b0bac2f_x74vi_8byvr_324

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